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Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Bullying

Seorang gadis remaja usia 14 tahun ditemukan ayahnya, David, dalam keadaan tak sadar setelah menggantung diri di kamar tidurnya. Jade Stringer, rupanya tidak tahan dengan ledekan teman-teman yang iri akan kecantikan wajahnya.  Selain itu, diduga gadis itu jengkel terhadap ayahnya karena ia dilarang menggunakan handphone yang meningkat biaya pulsanya.

Gadis ABG ini sempat dirawat selama enam hari di RS dengan bantuan mesin penopang kehidupan, namun akhirnya dia meninggal. Ini pelajaran penting tentang perlunya komunikasi antara anak dan orang tua. Jika anak mendapat "bullying" di sekolah, harus ada jalan keluar, sehingga tidak fatal akibatnya. Sayang sekali, gadis cantik menarik justru meninggal karena kecantikannya.

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Schoolgirl, 14, 'bullied for being pretty' found hanged in her bedroom

  • Jade Stringer was discovered in bedroom by her father
  • Friends make claims about bullying on tribute pages


By Matt Blake and Jaya Narain
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Facebook portrait of Jade Stringer, 14, from Bury, Greater Manchester, who was found hanged in her bedroom by her father David
Facebook portrait of Jade Stringer, 14, from Manchester, who was found hanged by her father David
A schoolgirl who was found hanged in her bedroom may have been driven to kill herself by bullies jealous of her popularity and good looks, it emerged yesterday.
Jade Stringer, 14, died six days after she was found unconscious by her father, David.

Friends say the teenager, who was well-liked and attractive, had endured a campaign of bullying over the past few months.

It is understood she may also have been upset at having her mobile phone confiscated by her family because they felt she was using it too much.

She was rushed to Fairfield General Hospital on June 10 where she died after almost a week on life support.

Friends of the teenager, who attended Haslingden High School, in nearby Rossendale, Lancashire, claimed she’d been bullied.

Tributes to Jade left on Twitter and Facebook said she had been a victim of bullying.
One pupil wrote: 'She was being bullied by numerous people.'

Chelsea Lazaruik added: 'R.I.P jade stringer you didn’t deserve to die the way you did bullying is horrible your was gorgeous in everyway.. Sleep tight xxx.'
'Gorgeous in every way': Jade Stringer died on Saturday six days after being discovered unconscious in her bedroom by her father
'Gorgeous in every way': Jade Stringer died on Saturday six days after being discovered unconscious in her bedroom by her father
Vanessa Nuttall said: 'Why anyone feels the need to bully someone so much is absolutely disgusting.'
It has also been reported she had clashed with her father after her mobile phone was taken off her.
Police said they were not treating her death as suspicious but were 'reviewing the circumstances' leading up to the incident.
Popular: Friends of the teenager (far right) claimed she had been bullied
Popular: Friends of the teenager (far right) claimed she had been bullied
Jade, who has a brother Jack, 13, was discovered in the attic bedroom of the home in Bury by her father nine days ago.
She was put on a life-support machine at Fairfield General Hospital in Bury where she died on Saturday afternoon.

A Greater Manchester Police spokesman said: 'Shortly after 3.35pm on Sunday, 10 June, police were called by paramedics to attend a house in Bolton Road in Hawkshaw, Edenfield, following a report a 14-year-old girl had been found unconscious.

'The incident is not being treated as suspicious and we are not searching for anybody else in relation to the incident.

'However, police are reviewing the circumstances leading up to this incident.'
The latest Ofsted report found Haslingden High to be an ‘outstanding school’.
The report added: ‘Surveys of students’ and parents’ opinions continue to support the view that “the control of bullying” is one of the school’s strongest features.’

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2161006/Jade-Stringer-Schoolgirl-14-hanged-bedroom-bullied.html#ixzz1yDl3zn00


Ditulis/diposting oleh Hadi Kristadi untuk PENTAS KESAKSIAN http://pentas-kesaksian.blogspot.com

Kesaksian Pembaca Buku "Mukjizat Kehidupan"

Pada tanggal 28 Oktober 2009 datang SMS dari seorang Ibu di NTT, bunyinya:
"Terpujilah Tuhan karena buku "Mukjizat Kehidupan", saya belajar untuk bisa mengampuni, sabar, dan punya waktu di hadirat Tuhan, dan akhirnya Rumah Tangga saya dipulihkan, suami saya sudah mau berdoa. Buku ini telah jadi berkat buat teman-teman di Pasir Panjang, Kupang, NTT. Kami belajar mengasihi, mengampuni, dan selalu punya waktu berdoa."

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